Finding Balance: Navigating Work, Business, and Personal Life
Running a business while juggling a new job and personal life can feel like trying to keep several plates spinning at once. Recently, I’ve been doing just that, and if you’re like me, it can feel overwhelming. After all, we can’t ignore our responsibilities, relationships, or passions, but finding the right balance between them takes time and self-awareness.
The Personal Juggle: Prioritising What Matters.
Over the last month, I’ve experienced a lot of changes in my life. Along with starting a new part-time job as a pupil support worker in a primary school—a role that deeply connects with my passion for supporting young people—I’ve also celebrated some major family milestones, including an engagement, a 25th wedding anniversary, and my mum’s 70th birthday.
On top of all this, I’m also a mum, which is one of the most important roles I have. Navigating motherhood alongside a growing business and personal relationships presents its own set of challenges, but it’s a part of my life I deeply cherish. To add to this whirlwind, I’ve also embarked on a new relationship. With all these personal commitments, it’s easy to feel like there’s not enough time in the day. And if you’re self-employed or managing a side business, you may know exactly what I’m talking about—there’s a constant balancing act that makes it hard to focus on everything equally.
The Challenges of Balance: Looking Forward
I’ve recognised that balance isn’t always about perfect time management but about adapting to the season of life I’m in. Moving forward, I’m planning to tackle some common challenges head-on with new strategies to maintain this balance:
- Time Constraints:
As I step further into my role at the primary school and manage my household as a mum, I realise that time for my business, Kairos Support Solutions, will continue to be limited. To adapt, I will set realistic, smaller goals for my business during this season. Instead of feeling pressured to devote full-time hours to it, I’ll prioritise tasks that can be completed in short bursts, such as updating social media or scheduling group sessions in advance - Mental Energy:
Balancing motherhood, a new relationship, a part-time job, and a business is mentally and emotionally demanding. I anticipate that mental fatigue will be a challenge, so I’ll build in more self-care moments to help keep me grounded. Whether it’s taking 10 minutes each day to meditate or simply having a quiet cup of tea, I will make space for reflection to ensure I bring my best self to every role. - Guilt About Neglecting the Business:
In the past, I’ve felt guilty about not giving enough time to my business when other commitments demanded my attention. However, I’m committing to let go of that guilt. From now on, I will focus on what I can do rather than what I can’t. My business can continue to grow, even during slower periods, and I’ll celebrate each small win as progress, rather than feeling bad about what’s left undone.
Strategies for Finding Balance
Finding balance won’t happen overnight, but I’m determined to work on it moving forward. Here are the strategies I plan to implement:
- Setting Boundaries:
I’ve learned that boundaries are essential. Going forward, I’m going to set clear, realistic boundaries for work, business, and personal time. This might mean dedicating certain hours of the week to my business and ensuring I’m fully present with my children and family during family time. It’s about respecting each commitment without overwhelming myself. - Embracing Flexibility:
I know life is unpredictable, especially when balancing being a mum, managing my business, and navigating a new relationship. I plan to be more flexible with my schedule, allowing for changes when family needs arise or when something unexpected happens. Instead of feeling stressed when things don’t go as planned, I’ll embrace flexibility and understand that balance isn’t rigid. - Delegating or Outsourcing:
I’ve realised that I don’t have to do everything on my own. If my business workload starts to feel too heavy, I will explore options to delegate tasks, like hiring a virtual assistant for admin tasks or automating parts of my business operations, such as social media scheduling. This will free up my time and mental energy for what really matters. - Practicing Self-Compassion:
Finally, I’m going to be kinder to myself. The reality is, balancing a part-time job, motherhood, a business, and personal relationships is not easy, and there will be days when I can’t do it all. Instead of beating myself up over it, I’ll practice self-compassion and remind myself that it’s okay to prioritise rest, downtime, and time with loved ones when needed.
Moving Forward
As I continue on this journey of balancing my role as a mum, a part-time job, my business, and personal relationships, I’m embracing the idea that balance is less about perfection and more about adjusting to life’s changes. Kairos Support Solutions remains a passion of mine, and though it may ebb and flow in terms of the time I can dedicate to it, it’s still an essential part of my journey.
If you’re also balancing work, a business, and personal life, know that it’s okay to not have it all figured out. Give yourself grace, make adjustments, and remember that balance comes in many forms. The key is finding what works best for you, in this moment, and being open to the shifts that life inevitably brings.
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Caroline Smith
Very well put Lyndsay. We all struggle with these things at times.